Heb 11:3 Through faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the word of God, so that things which are seen were not made of things which do appear. Everything that we can touch, feel or see was made with the unseen materials of the mind and the spirit. The life you are leaving today is a manifestation of what you framed in your spirit. God put in a man the creative ability to create the kind of destiny he would like to live in, whether good or bad. You are responsible for you, no one has the power to influence where your life should go. Even God himself needs you to corporate with him to be able to manifest his plans for your life, nothing happens by chance. This is how it works, first of all man receives information through the 5 senses and as he meditate on that information long enough, that information will form part of his mindset. Once something becomes your mindset, it will form your habits and character. And when habits are fully grown, they form the condition of your spirit ( the you which we see today) and your spirit will produce the results according to what is sown in it. If you want to change your life, then change the information you have received and believed to the information of what you would like to see in your life. To change the outside you need to first change the inside, make no mistake about this, whatever is happening in your life came from you. I understand that there are some issues which may be caused by the demonic, but the same demons need your permission to cause havoc in your life. There has to be an open door for Satan to mess with you, darkness invites darkness for where there is light darkness cannot be. So you cant blame anyone for anything, take accountability for your life and decide where you want to go. The best thing you can do for yourself is to find out God's will for your life and go that direction.