Judges 20:3 And the children of Israel went up and wept before the LORD until even, and asked counsel of the LORD, saying, Shall I go up again to battle against the children of Benjamin my brother? And the LORD said, Go up against him.
One of the ministries of the Holy Spirit is to give advice and direction. The Holy Spirit constantly guides our inner man and if anyone will follow his council that person will be a success in everything he does. Through fellowship you can learn and understand the language of the Holy Spirit such that you are able to differentiate between your natural decisions and spiritually guided decisions. The Holy Spirit can tell you to do something or not to do it. The Holy Spirit knows where you are at, and he knows the way out of every dilemma. He is the extra ordinary strategist, he knows how to make you a success. He is more passionate about your success than you could ever be, if only you could let him help you.
You can start by involving him in the small decision that you take on a daily basis, he knows what you can invest in to make profit. He delights when you communicate with him, but when you keep quiet and do everything by yourself without consulting him, he will just keep quiet even when he sees you are headed the wrong direction. Let’s say for example you have a friend that’s visits your house and all you do is to ignore that friend, I can tell you that friend will not feel welcome in your house, he might even leave. The same with the Holy Spirit, he needs fellowship and your body is his house and if you don’t talk to him he will feel unwelcome and will not force himself on you. He is a Gent