Between you and anything you want to accomplish, there will always be problems or obstacles of some kind. In the area of problems and difficulties, successful people have a particular way of thinking that we call “solution-orientation.” Solution-oriented people are constantly looking for ways to get over, around and past the obstacles that stand in their ways. Problem oriented people talk continuously about their problems, about who or what caused them, how unhappy or angry they are and how unfortunate it is that they have occurred.
Solution oriented people, on the other hand, simply ask the question, “How can we solve this?” and then take action to deal with the problem. The more you focus on solutions, the more and better solutions will come to you. The better you get at solving problems, the faster you will be at solving each subsequent problem. And as you get better and faster at solving problems, you will attract even bigger and more expensive problems to solve. The fact is that you have the ability to solve any problem or to overcome any obstacle on your path